Comments on: Most Common Issues in Marriage http://marriageretreatsguide.com/most-common-issues-in-marriage.html Guide to several marriage retreats. Repair or strengthen your marriage today! Wed, 11 Aug 2010 00:40:28 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Mr. Marriage http://marriageretreatsguide.com/most-common-issues-in-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-9 Mr. Marriage Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:28:47 +0000 http://marriageretreatsguide.com/?p=22#comment-9 This is not true! The fight that most couples have is about who's right and who's wrong. We fight about money, the kids, in-laws, and sex, but ultimately it comes down to the right fight. This is very important to understand because it is not the topic that's the problem but the style of communication. Couples divorce thinking they just can't agree about money, then then get remarried and find out they are having the same right fight, but this time it's just not about money, now it's about work or parents. Couples need help talking about issues, all issues. Not just money. This is not true! The fight that most couples have is about who’s right and who’s wrong. We fight about money, the kids, in-laws, and sex, but ultimately it comes down to the right fight. This is very important to understand because it is not the topic that’s the problem but the style of communication.

Couples divorce thinking they just can’t agree about money, then then get remarried and find out they are having the same right fight, but this time it’s just not about money, now it’s about work or parents.

Couples need help talking about issues, all issues. Not just money.

]]> By: Cheryl McCann http://marriageretreatsguide.com/most-common-issues-in-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-2 Cheryl McCann Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:32:36 +0000 http://marriageretreatsguide.com/?p=22#comment-2 Unfortunately, I would say that in most marriages, family with good "intentions" can be a major problem. Sometimes, it is not worthwhile to discuss specific issues because after the two of you have forgotten the situation, your family has not and carries a grudge. We have a daughter-in-law and we include her as a member of our family and also all of her family (which is large) because my husband and I want our family ties to be successful and close as possible. Cheryl McCann (huggy101) http://www.husband-ry.com Unfortunately, I would say that in most marriages, family with good “intentions” can be a major problem. Sometimes, it is not worthwhile to discuss specific issues because after the two of you have forgotten the situation, your family has not and carries a grudge.

We have a daughter-in-law and we include her as a member of our family and also all of her family (which is large) because my husband and I want our family ties to be successful and close as possible.

Cheryl McCann (huggy101)
http://www.husband-ry.com

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