the magic of making up
The problem failed to start overni te. You both slowly drifted apart – not intentionally-but not unintentionally, either.  ; One day that new guy at work asked you out to lunch.  ; it did no t look like a big score at the time. Almost all of the time a bunch from the office went out after work anyway.  ; So what was the harm of one lunch?  ;
He giggl ed at your jokes.  ; He made you ‘re feeling alive again.  ; It had been years since you felt that way.  ; When precise ly had the drudgery of life set in that you would even be drawn to some body after a straightforward lunch? If the very idea of an one night stand hadn’t  ; crossed your mind  ; before, it was certain ly crossing it now.  ;
But what about your partner at home? The one you made guarante es to and did laundry with.  ; The one you held the ladder for and was hoping painting the house didn’t include a visit to the ER. The one that would be there no matter what but just was no t that exciting anymore.  ; But yet, you wanted that part of the relationship back. You need ed to feel alive again with the individual you tru ly love. You simply need a plan.
Here the decision must be made.  ; do n’t buy the Magic of Making Up if one night stands make you happy. If you do n’t want to jump from relationship to relationship, a commitment needs to be made.  ; A plan must be in place that gets you thr u the bad times and will help to strengthen your relationship. If you are the partner which has been cheated on, mend ing a broken heart is going to take time.  ; Trust  ; will  ; be and issue but if you ‘ve got the commitment of both parties and a step -by-step plan to get you thr ough the coarse spots, it is fea sible. But do n’t buy the miracle of Making Up if  ; one night stand make you happy.
